As the world evolves, so do wedding traditions. While some customs remain unchanged, others have been creatively reimagined to fit the tastes and values of modern couples. Let’s take a look at some of the most popular traditions, both for western and traditional weddings and whether they are still prominent.
1. Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed and Something Blue
We’ve seen this in many American movies and series that we watch. According to Old English history dating back to the 19th century, the meaning behind the rhyme is as follows:
- “Something Old” – Continuity/ connection to the bride’s family. Nowadays, brides can take a piece from their mother’s or grandmother’s wedding gown and have it incorporated into their own. Or the groom’s family heirloom such as a wedding ring can be given to the bride.
- “Something New” – Represents hope for the future
- “Something Borrowed” – Is said to represent good luck for the union or the hope that some of the good fortune from whom the item has been borrowed, transfers over. Nowadays, this can be taken less literally through borrowing perhaps the parents’ or grandparents’ first-dance song.
- “Something Blue” – The colour blue represents love and fidelity and has been connected to weddings even in ancient Rome where brides wore blue to represent fidelity. We don’t see much of brides wearing blue accessories such as shoes or garters, but a new-age way of incorporating this tradition has been seen in small details that can be aligned with one’s theme, such as underplates, napkins or the bouquet.
2. From Traditional Wedding Cakes to Dessert Bars and Food Stations
Gone are the days of the single, multi-tiered wedding cake. Modern couples are now opting for dessert bars and food stations that offer a variety of sweet and savory treats. This trend allows guests to indulge in their favorite flavors and textures, from cupcakes and macarons to sliders and tacos. The traditional wedding cake is still present, but it’s often accompanied by an array of other delicious options.
3. The Evolution of the Wedding Party: Non-Traditional Attendants and Dress Code
The traditional bridal party has undergone a significant transformation. Modern couples are now including non-traditional attendants, such as male maids of honor or female best men. Additionally, the dress code has become more relaxed, with bridesmaids often choosing dresses in different colors, styles, or even patterns. Some couples are also abandoning the traditional attire altogether, opting for coordinating outfits or even themed costumes.
4. From Church Weddings to Outdoor and Unconventional Venues
With increasing numbers of couples choosing non-traditional wedding venues, the notion of a traditional church wedding has given way to outdoor ceremonies and receptions. Couples are now exchanging vows in scenic locations such as beaches, mountains, vineyards, or even historic landmarks. Unconventional venues like museums, breweries, or restaurants are also gaining popularity, offering unique backdrops for the special day.
5. Unorthodox wedding gown colors? Yes, please.
For the bride who wants to break free from traditional wedding norms, an unorthodox wedding gown color is the perfect way to make a statement. Move over, ivory and white! Modern brides are embracing bold, vibrant hues that reflect their personality and style. Consider a rich burgundy or bold blue for a sophisticated, whimsical look, or opt for a soft peach or blush tone for a romantic, vintage vibe. If you’re feeling truly adventurous, you could even try a metallic or glittering gown in rose gold, champagne, or lavender. Whatever your choice, an unconventional wedding gown color is sure to make your special day truly unforgettable – and totally Instagram-worthy!